I've been in deep love with my boyfriend for 2 years, 5 months we've been together. He's my first boyfriend, and judging by how very caring and respectful we are towards each other, it will be the day we die that we'll ever part (spiritually, we're together forever). We haven't had even a single fight for the whole duration of the relationship. We barely get into tiffs; the biggest tiff we got into was about what time we shut out the lights in the bedroom--mild discussion sort of tiff. We let one another be ourselves without putting conditions on the other. I don't hold him on a leash, and he doesn't hold me on one, either.
I wasn't looking for him when we found each other, either. I didn't really care for a boyfriend. I was fine on my own. We bonded immediately, sexually the 2nd day (I started it, and he doesn't even like sex!). I trusted him on day 1; he just had that feeling to him, like we've been friends our whole lives. He is my very best friend.
I look at other peoples' relationships, and they call it a game. If they call dating a game, then they're never going to be best friends with people. How is friendship a game? My boyfriend told me that a friend of his in Australlia said, "You don't fight? At all? How can you be in love if you don't fight? That means you're not passionate! Your relationship is all about sex because you don't fight!"
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I'm sorry, but caring about someone doesn't mean you have to pick a fight with them for the sake of a "relationship." As if all couples are just supposed to fight for some illogical reason because society teaches people to regard love as a game. Our passion extends to our respect for everything we are. I'm not going to tell my boyfriend how to be just to start a fight. I don't care if he does socially unacceptable things--he's a human! What ELSE is he going to do?! I mean, weird, gross--I don't care
what he does in front of me. Maybe it's because I'm not easily grossed out.
To fight just for the sake of a "relationship" will only end in disaster. I can't just
choose to suddenly dislike an aspect of my boyfriend that I really don't care about in the first place. And
because we love each other so much, despite his dislike towards sex, we have it often. That's a very good thing, and that friend of his regards the relationship ALL about sex based on not fighting (sex is the bi-product, and not the whole). Sex wouldn't be possible with fighting. I'm sorry girl, but you have very bad logic skills.
The fact that I love myself so very much is why I have such a beautiful relationship at all. I'm really romantic with him; he isn't very good at romance, but I just keep giving to him only for the sake of love.
Our first kiss 2 months after we met, we were hanging out at the park. I was straddled on top of him, just cuddling, he was lying on the ground on his back, and he started the kiss. Well, gravity works, I'll tell ya. Me not knowing how to kiss (I was trying to french,) I slobbered all over his face.

I don't regret it, either!