What do you mean by different?
Its probably, in my opinion, not worth it. A difference, persay, between the inside and the outside. Do the judging only by your heart.
My girl and I have been living with each other for over 2 years now. We are getting ready to move in 1 month from Ohio, to New York. We are moving on November 29th. 4 weeks from today.
We share a bed obviously, so we never feel guilty after sex. We don't usually rely on condoms. (I don't suggest that for all of you kids who are sexually active)
I also do not suggest anyone here that is still in school to get seriously involved with someone. Being seriously involved at that age is just heartache waiting to happen. Honestly you have to know yourself before you can have a successful and healthy relationship with someone else.
Don't get me wrong, you should be dating. You should be getting moe familiar with the opposite sex. Because your shyness will always be there until you become more comfortable with the opposite sex. That takes time and experience.
But a serious relationship when still in highschool is a very bad idea. After highschool everything changes. You will probably not hang around the same people. You will find new friends, many will move away and go to college. Making life altering decisions like going to college is the last thing you want to do while in a serious relationship, because those decisions could be altered or even halted altogether when in a serious relationship. This makes people give up something great for something that is more than likely destined to fail.
Remember this is experience talking. I've been with more women than I could count. I've been there. I've done that. I did the same things I'm speaking against, and truly wish I had listened to this kind of advice when I was most of your guys ages.